This morning I was reading the third chapter of the book of James in the bible. It basically says if you can control your speech, you can control your entire body. That makes sense. Speech is such a quick process. We think it, we say it. Often we say too much, or say the wrong thing at the wrong time to the wrong people. Lies are told, feelings are hurt, anger develops, friendships are shattered, jealousy, envy and resentment can fester. All because of a handful of inappropriate words.
Maybe if we just slowed down the speaking process. When you think of something you’d like to say, pause for just a second and ask yourself: Does this really need to be said? Will this be helpful?
Speech has incredible power. Use it to build people up. And keep in mind sometimes it’s wiser not to use it at all.