Self pity is a trap we are all tempted to fall into. Woe is us. Why me? Nobody understands what I’m going through. Maybe we use these mindsets to somehow console ourselves when adversity strikes. But they usually don’t work. In fact, they often make us feel worse. Trying to focus on the positive, and counting your blessings, almost always works better.
I met a woman recently who lost her sight ten years ago. Then she lost her taste and smell during the Covid pandemic. They have not returned. She is also experiencing numbness in her hands and arms. So basically, of the five senses, only her hearing is still fully intact. Yet she lives a full and active life. She cooks, sews, reads, attends church regularly, and even gives lectures on overcoming hardships. Her challenges make mine seem very small.
The old saying goes, “somebody always has it worse than you do”. It’s true, you know. Don’t give up. Fight off your adversity. Be determined to be full of joy. Others have overcome worse than your problems. You can do this. And you will.
Ken please know that your daily 1 Minute Of Your Time has a big impact. I look forward to your wisdom each day.
Thank you so much Rick.
Amen.